Hey ho all my readers. It’s been a long time not chatting with you in this blog again. Well, I just finished my idul fitri holiday by shopping around my hometown (bekasi oh my love). In this post, I would like to share you my experience and also some values that I got from my holiday, especially when I got a present from my young sister. Do you want to know?? Make sure you will not go every where until you finish reading this post.
It was the Idul Fitri day. All people were in white and burst their happiness by shaking hand each other and coming home to home. I started the day by coming to the field where the Idul Fitri Pray was held with my family. Yeah it was in a field, but let’s say it Park to make it sounds more splendid. We went to the park by walking, because the location of the park was not really far from our house. Along the street there were many people talking each other while walking to the park. Children were at their ease emotion because they would get lots of money (THR) from their parents. Walking to the park with my family was not really special for me, because we always do it and the pray is always hold at that place in order to collect all the Jama’ah (people who are praying) in the same place so they are able to find their mates, neighbors, friends, or even their enemies and convey their sorry for being so rude in their whole life.
The atmosphere was so nice. I could see some of them were crying and hugging each other. That was the moment I never saw but in Idul Fitri. Then after shaking hand each other, I and my family went back to our house where we could eat lots of food and conveyed our sorry to all members of the family. That was the touching moment for me, especially when I conveyed my sorry to my parents. Suddenly, there were many pictures in my mind about all my mistakes to them. Many times I made them angry, but lack of my time to make them happy.
After conveyed the sorry, we all gathered in a family room to talk each other while waiting for some guests. Unfortunately, there were no guests because the weather was not really friendly. It was raining even though not too bad. After that, we went to the dining room and ate the main suppers which were opor ayam and empal. Again at that time, we were talking each other about everything we felt. My brother conveyed his plan to get married, my parents conveyed about having a small farm in Yogyakarta, and I conveyed my plan to take a course of language. All of them were warmhearted to listen each other and I was happy too because my parents allowed me to take the course. They suggested me to take a course of Deutch (Germany Language) or France language. But I’d like to take the France course I guess, if only I find a good quality place to study about.
Feeling so happy my plan was welcomed well by all the members, I went to the up stair of my house where I could reach the internet connection in order to check my social network accounts and say sorry for my mistakes to all my friends in those accounts. I also tried to find out some information about the right place for me to study the France language and Deutch. While finding the information, my young sister came to me and gave me a present for my birthday. FYI, my birthday was on August but because I live in Yogyakarta, she didn’t enough money to send it to me by post so she kept it until I went back to Bekasi. O, I was melting when I got that present. Knowing that she was so care to me even though it was hardly enough for me for being warm to her. I had a very private problem with her that I couldn’t tell to you all my blog readers. It’s so private and confidential (I got the phrase when I read a letter from my bank account, it’s not bad to apply it on my post).
Because of I am not a type of person who is able to convey my happiness by saying nice words, so I only smiled, gave my warm sight, and say thank you so much to her. Then I opened the present and I found a splendid thing inside it. It was a die cast, die cast of Mercedes Benz. She knew what I like! I like collecting die casts, I have many die casts in my cupboard. Some of them have been collected since I was in junior high school. I was so happy to get that present, even though the size was too big but it didn’t matter anything to jeopardize her will to make me happy. Then again I conveyed my thanks to her and she seemed so happy to see my reaction.
Learning from that story, I just could share to you some simple values that actually when you hate someone it’s not simply avoiding all eternal love which has been created by God in your heart to all the people on the face of the world. Sometime you say that “I hate you” or perhaps your enemies say it to you, actually it’s not your soul who says it, it’s only your body which is being controlled by something abstract and bad for you attitude. But believe it or not, deep in your heart you will regret for what you have done to the person.
Talking is a good way to link all broken parts to be a tough chain. Why I said so? Because many of us are accustomed to keep our feeling inside our own hearts. Even we don’t know when it will burst. The good way that we have to do is convey what we feel and think to the person. So the person could know what you feel and hopefully she/he could change her/his attitude to you.
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